I am not trying to say that a sub will lie to you, sure some may, but more often than not the sub will simply be ignorant of their own limits, needs, and desires. Okxxx At no point is it about anger, hate, or disgust. This article is about being a Dom. If they don’t want to come back, you did not do your job well. By you saying, earnestly, “I am sexually dominant” you have created a line of conversation too appealing to ignore. A final note: if you are doing anything kinky or even remotely dangerous, be sure to have a safeword. It is never okay to tell them what you think they want to hear, you need to tell them only the truth, no matter how difficult is may be.
